Every child deserves a personal champion. 1-in-3 children today do not have a sustained adult mentor in their life, that is why matching children with mentors through programs like Big Brothers Big Sisters Utah can have a profound and lasting impact on the lives of both the littles (mentee) and their big (mentor) counterparts. Adrian’s heartwarming story of adventuring into new experiences with his Big Connor is just one example of the lifelong connections and difference that a mentoring relationship can make.
One of the most evident benefits of matching Littles with Bigs is the opportunity for shared experiences and memorable moments. Little Adrian got to attend his first baseball game with his Big, Connor, at a local Salt Lake Bees Baseball game. Adrian had his heart set on catching a fly ball. Big Connor tried to help his Little have realistic expectations since Connor had been to many baseball games and had never caught a fly ball. But as luck would have it, a fly ball came right their way and Little Adrian got to have an exciting and memorable first baseball game.
Outings like these can create lasting memories that shape a child’s perspective and provide them with a sense of joy and belonging. It’s not just about attending baseball games; it’s about the shared laughter, the excitement Adrian felt when catching a fly ball, and the pride of getting his ball signed by Bumble, the Bees mascot. These moments go beyond mere entertainment; they contribute to a child’s personal growth and happiness.
The impact of these shared experiences extends to many aspects of a child’s life. Adrian’s newfound enthusiasm for exploring the world outside his home is a testament to this. Before being matched with Connor, he spent most of his free time indoors, at home. Now, with a dedicated mentor by his side, he’s venturing out to places like the Planetarium, and the zoo. While engaging in creative activities like Paint Nite. These excursions not only broaden a child’s horizons but also nurture their curiosity and thirst for knowledge.
Adrian has even gotten to become his Big Brother’s tour guide, as Connor is a new move to Utah. Through becoming a match, Adrian has been able to show Connor the wonders of the community. Allowing the opportunities for both of them to see what Utah has to offer. This role reversal highlights another significant benefit of such mentorship programs – the opportunity for reciprocal learning and growth. While the mentor may initially assume the role of the guide, the relationship often evolves into a mutually enriching experience. The mentor learns from the child’s unique perspective, and this can be particularly rewarding for adults who may have lost touch with their own sense of wonder and curiosity over the years.
Furthermore, the support system that forms between Bigs and Littles is invaluable. Connor adds that becoming a Big has added another person and family to his support network. Many children and adults nowadays lack stable and consistent sources of emotional support. Having a mentor like Connor to help provide support, stability and adding another caring presence in a child’s life can help children improve emotionally and academically. This can lead them to make positive choices when it comes to peer pressure and to develop important life skills. In turn, mentors, like Connor, can find solace in knowing they are making a positive impact and that they have another supportive network of their own. Connor expressed that he recently lost a loved one and one of the first people to reach out to him was his Little Adrian, to see how he was doing. The experience of Adrian reaching out during a difficult time in his life illustrates the deep bond that forms between matches.
The benefits of matching extend beyond individual relationships to the broader community. By fostering positive mentoring relationships, programs like Big Brothers Big Sisters Utah contribute to building stronger, more connected communities. Children who receive guidance and support from mentors are more likely to grow into responsible, engaged citizens who contribute positively to society. This ripple effect can lead to safer neighborhoods, improved educational outcomes, and a stronger social fabric overall.
In conclusion, the story of Adrian and Connor’s match through Big Brothers Big Sisters Utah serves as a heartwarming example of the countless benefits that emerge from such programs. From shared experiences and personal growth to the development of a robust support system and community building, the impact of mentorship programs is immeasurable. As Connor aptly puts it, “Being a Big is worth it.” The time commitment involved is a small price to pay for the rewarding experiences and lasting positive effects that extend far beyond the duration of the match. Ultimately, these programs not only change the lives of the littles but also leave an indelible mark on the hearts of the bigs who participate, making the world a better place one match at a time.
To learn more about volunteer opportunities in Utah with Big Brothers Big Sisters Utah, and how you can become a match, visit bbbsu.org.
